1. I was at a state animal show in which my grandfather and I entered a few of our chickens. The show housed cows, horses, pigs, etc., along with all types of fowl. One of his chickens won second place and one of mine won first! That's not the best part, though, because while I was roaming the grounds looking at all the different types of geese and ducks, my grandfather slipped away and either traded for or bought me five silky pullets and one cock silky. They were very beautiful birds with a healthy shine. The eggs they would come to produce were blue-green and small, but rich. I raised these separate from the other chickens and took great pride in farming them. I learned to raise many different types of chickens at my grandfather's side and will teach these skills to my children, since he has passed. He taught me care, resilience, and discipline.
2. I stepped out into the road above my grandparents' house on an early Easter morning when I was four years old. A neighbor of my grandparents was driving by and struck me as I stepped in front of his car. His bumper knocked my down and this front passenger side tire rolled over me. I don't remember much, but I do know that my father ran up to me, scooped me up and ran me into my grandparents' house. I remember there were shouts and my family trying to decide to either lay me on the floor or the couch, because my spine may have been damaged. The ambulance came and took me to the hospital and I stayed there for three days. I remember doctors coming in and trying to get me to move my left arm and leg. I said I couldn't, but my mother recalls that I was scared of it hurting and that I could move, but wouldn't. After it was all said and done, I was released and no worse for wear. I do remember, though, that as my father was collecting my toys they brought for me he accidentally took a piece of a toy train track from the hospital's train set. We laugh about it now. I've learned to be wary of crossing the road.
3. I was with a group of friends my freshman year of college at a Denny's for a late night dinner. My current girlfriend and I were crossing I-79 on Route 50 West at 1:00 a.m. and going through a green light intersection. Another vehicle, a black SUV-type, ran a red light off the ramp of I-79 South to Route 50 East. I saw him coming and tried to get out of the way, but he plowed into my front quarter panel on the passenger side. I didn't know it at the time, but my car did a 360+ and took out a couple signs before it came to rest about 40 yards from the impact site, over a raised median, and in the opposing lane. I cam to and checked on my passenger, she was very frightened and we got our seat belts off, but her door was stuck. I climbed out, trying to get her door open, then got her out through my driver-side door. We were shaken, but otherwise not very hurt. The man who ran the red light called 911, but then fled the scene leaving his phone and wallet in his vehicle. I later found out he wasn't supposed to be driving and he was drinking/drugged up. My passenger and I were taken to the local hospital to get an upper body x-ray to be sure we weren't hurt and a shadow was found at the lower portion of the film. Later, we discovered that the shadow was a tumor in my thyroid. I had thyroidoma. Surgery followed a couple weeks later. Sometimes, blessings come in the most unlikely disguises.
4. I, my immediate family, and my cousin were just finishing up watching a movie and saying our goodbyes when my mother received a call from my aunt down the road. My mother made a face and placed a hand on her chest, saying, "My father just passed." We were dumbfounded and shocked. My cousin and I ran out to my cousin's car and raced to my grandparents' house, pulling into their lawn. We rushed in to find my grandmother, aunt, and uncle there with my grandfather laying on the kitchen floor. They were eating dinner and he had a fatal heart attack. A recent event occurred a few months prior when I received a call from my grandmother saying my grandfather was choking. I threw shoes on and raced to their house to find him slumped over at the dinner table. He wasn't breathing and had a dull look in his eyes. I picked him up and performed the Heimlich maneuver until my uncle arrived and did the same. We couldn't get the food dislodged, but the coming ambulance got him to the hospital in time to remove the food. He spent time in the hospital recovering, but there was no recovering from his heart attack. This was the grandfather to taught me about life and death on his farm. I will never forget him.
5. My important event was my marriage to my wife of almost four months. She has changed my life drastically in a positive direction. I have grown up much in these last few months, taking on more responsibilities and relinquishing others. I see us as one unit with two heads, always planning the future, living the present, and learning from the past. It is a great responsibility, being a Christian husband, but one I will carry happily.